李玫瑾：想养好一个孩子，在他18岁之前，有4个黄金台阶要走稳
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孩子的心理发展是有台阶的，当问题呈现时，早已失去了最好的矫正机会。所以，以下4个养育关键期，父母一定要及时把控。</p><p class="" style="min-height: 25px;"> </p><p class="" style="min-height: 25px;"> 孩子每天都在成长，从嗷嗷待哺的婴儿，到阳光少年；</p><p class="" style="min-height: 25px;"> </p><p class="" style="min-height: 25px;">从懵懂无知的幼儿到活泼开朗的小学生；</p><p class="" style="min-height: 25px;"> </p><p class="" style="min-height: 25px;">从喜欢黏着妈妈的小宝宝到独立自主的大孩子......</p><p class="" style="min-height: 25px;"> </p><p class="" style="min-height: 25px;">孩子的每个成长阶段都有不同的特点，根据特点的不同，孩子的成长需求自然也不一样。</p><p class="" style="min-height: 25px;"> </p><p class="" style="min-height: 25px;">婴幼儿时期，他需要父母更多的照顾；</p><p class="" style="min-height: 25px;"> </p><p class="" style="min-height: 25px;">小学生时期，学习成为了他的主要任务； </p><p class="" style="min-height: 25px;"> </p><p class="" style="min-height: 25px;">进入初中高中，父母又要做好后方的保障，平稳度过青春期。</p><h3 style="min-height: 25px;"> </h3><h3 style="min-height: 25px;"> 孩子在不同年龄，有不同的需求，家长就要给予正确的教养，才能帮助孩子更好地成长。</h3><p class="" style="min-height: 25px;"> </p><p class="" style="min-height: 25px;"> 李玫瑾教授指出，在18岁之前，孩子有四个成长台阶，家长一定要注意，抓住了，孩子就终身受益。</p><p class="" style="min-height: 25px;"> </p><h3> 01</h3><p class="" style="min-height: 25px;"> </p><p class="" style="min-height: 25px;"> 第一个台阶</p><p class="" style="min-height: 25px;"> </p><p class="" style="min-height: 25px;"> 0-3岁：情感抚养</p><p class="" style="min-height: 25px;"> </p><p class="" style="min-height: 25px;"> 0-3岁的孩子，是情感需求最强的时期，这段时期如果出现情感的缺失，可能会造成亲子之间的隔阂。</p><p class="empty_paragraph"> </p><p class="qf_image big noneditable" contenteditable="false"><img src="https://pic.app.yilongnews.com/forum/20230104211833front2_0_832344_FkYoOuejKo33ntH4zz_HFE8dBfMM.png?watermark/1/image/aHR0cHM6Ly9waWMuYXBwLnlpbG9uZ25ld3MuY29tL2FkbWluX0ZrXzZPVWNxSkppbDBhaEdkN0FoOUR6bk9RNXEucG5n/dissolve/40/gravity/SouthEast" alt="" width="583" height="328" data-qf-origin="forum/20230104211833front2_0_832344_FkYoOuejKo33ntH4zz_HFE8dBfMM.png?watermark/1/image/aHR0cHM6Ly9waWMuYXBwLnlpbG9uZ25ld3MuY29tL2FkbWluX0ZrXzZPVWNxSkppbDBhaEdkN0FoOUR6bk9RNXEucG5n/dissolve/40/gravity/SouthEast" /></p><p> </p><p class="" style="min-height: 25px;">但是恰恰在这个时期，很多孩子的情感抚养是缺失的。</p><p class="" style="min-height: 25px;"> </p><p>很多家长，因为工作原因，孩子一出生就被送到老人身边抚养，或者由老人扮演主要养育者的角色。</p><p style="font-weight: 400;"> </p><h3 style="font-weight: 400;">表面看起来没什么问题，可是等把孩子接回身边，家长才发现：<strong>孩子和自己不亲了！</strong></h3><p style="font-weight: 400;"> </p><p style="font-weight: 400;">李玫瑾教授曾多次强调：</p><p style="font-weight: 400;"> </p><h3><strong>孩子在3岁以前，父母一定要亲自养育，给予孩子积极的关注和回应。</strong></h3><p> </p><p class="empty_paragraph"> </p><p class="qf_image big noneditable" contenteditable="false"><img src="https://pic.app.yilongnews.com/forum/20230104212036front2_0_832344_Fhjc-TkolIQA3dj-3UzK5kex52_H.jpg?watermark/1/image/aHR0cHM6Ly9waWMuYXBwLnlpbG9uZ25ld3MuY29tL2FkbWluX0ZrXzZPVWNxSkppbDBhaEdkN0FoOUR6bk9RNXEucG5n/dissolve/40/gravity/SouthEast" alt="" width="640" height="677" data-qf-origin="forum/20230104212036front2_0_832344_Fhjc-TkolIQA3dj-3UzK5kex52_H.jpg?watermark/1/image/aHR0cHM6Ly9waWMuYXBwLnlpbG9uZ25ld3MuY29tL2FkbWluX0ZrXzZPVWNxSkppbDBhaEdkN0FoOUR6bk9RNXEucG5n/dissolve/40/gravity/SouthEast" /></p><p> </p><p>从小就缺乏父母的爱，孩子对父母既有情感的渴望，又有陌生的恨意，认为父母不爱自己，而这种隔阂有的会延续一生。</p><p> </p><p>同时，老人带大的孩子，性格多少会有些问题，或骄纵偏激，或孤僻自卑，等到了青春期，这些性格会迸发出巨大的毁灭力量。</p><p> </p><p>而父母亲自养育的孩子，内心充满安全感，性格情绪相对都会比较稳定。</p><p> </p><p>所以，对于这个阶段的孩子，父母一定要亲自抚养孩子。</p><p> </p><p>对于孩子的哭闹等不良情绪也要给出积极的回应，帮助孩子建立好安全感，为后面稳定的情绪和性格打基础。</p><p> </p><h3 style="font-weight: 400;"><strong> 02</strong></h3><h3 style="font-weight: 400;"><strong> </strong></h3><h3 style="font-weight: 400;"><strong> 第二个台阶</strong></h3><p> </p><h3 style="font-weight: 400;"><strong> 3-6岁：性格抚养</strong></h3><p> </p><p>“性格决定命运”，一个人的性格，会决定他未来人生的走向。</p><p style="font-weight: 400;"> </p><h3 style="font-weight: 400;">李玫瑾老师就指出：<strong>孩子的性格教育比能力教育更重要。</strong></h3><p> </p><p>性格是一种后天形成的社会行为方式，它关乎着你为人处世的方式方法。</p><p> </p><p class="empty_paragraph"> </p><p class="qf_image big noneditable" style="position: relative;" contenteditable="false"><img src="https://pic.app.yilongnews.com/forum/20230104212358front2_0_832344_FhhhjcWqFmXtZeXklF7CLntkcIt2.jpg?watermark/1/image/aHR0cHM6Ly9waWMuYXBwLnlpbG9uZ25ld3MuY29tL2FkbWluX0ZrXzZPVWNxSkppbDBhaEdkN0FoOUR6bk9RNXEucG5n/dissolve/40/gravity/SouthEast" alt="" width="640" height="434" data-qf-origin="forum/20230104212358front2_0_832344_FhhhjcWqFmXtZeXklF7CLntkcIt2.jpg?watermark/1/image/aHR0cHM6Ly9waWMuYXBwLnlpbG9uZ25ld3MuY29tL2FkbWluX0ZrXzZPVWNxSkppbDBhaEdkN0FoOUR6bk9RNXEucG5n/dissolve/40/gravity/SouthEast" /></p><p class="empty_paragraph"> </p><p class="qf_image big noneditable" style="position: relative;" 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